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Pearlsong Press books

  • Charlie Lovett: The Program

    Charlie Lovett: The Program
    A new weight loss clinic in New York City has an offer for you -- given them $5,000 and they'll make you as thin as a supermodel. You can eat whatever you want and never gain an ounce. Tempted? Fledgling journalist Karen Sumner would be -- if only she had $5,000. When Karen finally walks through the blue and gold doors of The Program, however, she's on the trail of the hottest story of her career. If she and her friends are right, The Program is doing something even worse than creating an army of unnaturally thin women. Library Journal calls The Program "a lively first novel. Highly recommended."

  • Linda C Wisniewski: Off Kilter: A Woman's Journey to Peace with Scoliosis, Her Mother, and Her Polish Heritage

    Linda C Wisniewski: Off Kilter: A Woman's Journey to Peace with Scoliosis, Her Mother, and Her Polish Heritage
    Even before she was diagnosed with scoliosis at 13, Linda Wisniewski felt off kilter. Born to a cruel father in the insulated Polish Catholic community of Amsterdam, New York, she learned martyrdom as a way of life. Off Kilter shows her learning to stretch her Self as well as her spine as she comes to terms with her mentally deteriorating, widowed mother and her culture. Only by accepting her physical deformity, her emotionally unavailable mother, and her Polish American heritage does she finally find balance and a life that fits. Maureen Murdock, author of Unreliable Truth: On Memoir & Memory, calls Off Kilter "a courageous, insightful book, particularly relevant for anyone who grew up feeling physically 'different.'"

  • Pat, Ballard: The Best Man

    Pat, Ballard: The Best Man
    Sparks fly the night Lana Clarke meets to plan her sister's wedding -- and not just because curvaceous Lana announces she's stopped dieting and doesn't care if she's fat as maid of honor. The strong-willed sister of the bride attracts the attention of the groom's devastatingly handsome best man, Anthony Angelino. But when the sparks become flames, Lana's in trouble. Tony's first wife died mysteriously. Will Lana be next?

  • Judy Bagshaw: At Long Last, Love

    Judy Bagshaw: At Long Last, Love
    Big beautiful --and in some cases slightly more mature -- heroines grace the pages of this collection of romantic short stories by Judy Bagshaw.

  • Jack Adler: Splendid Seniors

    Jack Adler: Splendid Seniors
    An inspiring ensemble of 52 people whose accomplishments after age 65 remind us that creativity, passion & influence can not only flower in later years, but bear delicious fruit.

  • Mary Saracino: The Singing of Swans

    Mary Saracino: The Singing of Swans
    "The Singing of Swans is a remarkable narrative calling--even compelling--us to connect with our own ancestral roots, to seek our own inner wisdom, and to reclaim our own inner voices!" --Margaret Starbird, author of The Woman With the Alabaster Jar & Mary Magdalene: Bride in Exile

  • Ellen Frankel: Beyond Measure: A Memoir About Short Stature and Inner Growth

    Ellen Frankel: Beyond Measure: A Memoir About Short Stature and Inner Growth
    "If you have ever measured your height or your weight and felt good or bad about yourself as a result, you need this book. In its pages, Ellen Frankel makes an important contribution to human liberation by telling the most fabulous story that can be told, the story of a person coming fully into her own. This book is thought-provoking, heart-rending, and a genuine solace for people of all sizes." --Marilyn Wann, author of FAT!SO?

  • Pat Ballard: Abigail's Revenge

    Pat Ballard: Abigail's Revenge
    Injustice, romance and suspense smolder in a small Southern town. Romantic suspense from the Queen of Rubenesque Romances, Pat Ballard.

  • Pattie Thomas, Ph.D.: Taking Up Space

    Pattie Thomas, Ph.D.: Taking Up Space
    "Thomas's incisive blend of sociological inquiry and personal narrative amounts to a provocative treatise on fat oppression in our culture. Taking Up Space is a kind of roadmap through the minefield of the 'war on obesity,' and it offers protection to the reader ready to fight for cultural change surrounding the meaning of fatness." --Kathleen LeBesco, Ph.D., author of Revotling Bodies: The Struggle to Redefine Fat Identity.

  • Anne Richardson Williams: Unconventional Means: The Dream Down Under

    Anne Richardson Williams: Unconventional Means: The Dream Down Under
    Shattered by family tragedy in the early 1960s, an upper-middle-class Southern teenager finds solace in art and literature. Decades later she is called to the continent whose literature once comforted her, and to a magical connection with an Aboriginal woman transcending race and half a world.

  • Pat Ballard: A Worthy Heir

    Pat Ballard: A Worthy Heir
    When Pam Spencer sees the newspaper ad seeking "a worthy heir" to Fiona Bainbridge's millions, she jumps at the chance to get her brother the medical care he needs after a job-related accident. But Reese Bainbridge, Fiona's handsome grandson--and jilted heir--rushes home in anger when he hears his grandmother has moved Pam and her brother into the family mansion. Sparks fly--and Pam is up to the challenge.

  • Pat Ballard: His Brother's Child

    Pat Ballard: His Brother's Child
    One party, one silver-tongued, double-talking stranger intent on winning a bet, and Faith Carr ends up betrayed, alone, and pregnant. When Edward Brenner shows up on her doorstep intending to right his brother's wrongs, she's scared and vulnerable. But she agrees to marry this stranger to give the baby a father, although keeping him at a distance. She doesn't realize that Edward fell in love with her the moment he saw her. Will her battered self-esteem allow her to see the truth--and her own beauty?

  • Pat Ballard: Wanted: One Groom

    Pat Ballard: Wanted: One Groom
    Wealthy Hanna Rockwell will lose her home and her inheritance unless she marries by her 30th birthday. She's stunned when Matt Corbett, the faded rock start she worshipped in her teens, accepts her brother's offer to bail him out of financial trouble if he'll marry her. Her teenaged fantasies come to life--bringing a few surprises with them.

  • Pat Ballard: Nobody's Perfect

    Pat Ballard: Nobody's Perfect
    Nella Covington can't believe she's agreed to marry arrogant Samuel du Cannon, even if it IS only a marriage of convenience. He needs a mother for his young son, and she needs to keep her childhood home. If Sam's work keeps him on the road enough, she won't have to deal with him much. Sam's never been attracted to plus-size women, so they won't be tempted to have a real relationship. At least, that's what they keep telling themselves--

  • Pat Ballard: Dangerous Curves Ahead: Short Stories

    Pat Ballard: Dangerous Curves Ahead: Short Stories
    Ten romantic tales pack suspense and sizzle into this collection of short stories featuring amply curved women.

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May 06, 2008

A Fat Woman's Manifesto

Judy Bagshaw, author of romantic fiction with full-figured heroines (including At Long Last, Love, published by my company, Pearlsong Press), has A Fat Woman's Manifesto that I love. I'm posting it here with her permission.

A Fat Woman's Manifesto
by Judy Bagshaw (copyright 2001)
(this big girl will NOT be pushed around any more!)

  1. Diets will no longer factor at all in my life. A healthy lifestyle will!
  2. Life is a banquet. I intend to get my money's worth.
  3. My weight is not open for discussion -- period!
  4. I'll eat anything I damn well please!
  5. I will not settle for second best.
  6. I will greet the world with my head up.
  7. Fear will no longer rule my actions.
  8. I won't put up with put-downs.
  9. I won't base my self-esteem on other people's opinions.
  10. I'm Fat. Get over it!

The American Heritage Dictionary defines "manifesto" as "A public declaration of principles, policies, or intentions, especially of a political nature." Since war has been declared on "obesity," I'd say manifestos  from the targeted population are particularly apt.

I'm reminded of Pattie Thomas, Ph.D.'s "Declaration of Taking Up Space," another manifesto that calls for warriors of all sizes to stand for the freedom to control one's body and help end the war on fat people.

So....what's YOUR manifesto?

May 01, 2008

Apologies to previous commenters...except the spammer

I just discovered several comments made to posts over the past couple of months (sheesh!) that have been unpublished (until just now) because I was never notified they were waiting for approval. Due, I suspect, to the capricious nature of Bellsouth/AT&T email. Well, they won't be my ISP for much longer, heh, heh, heh....as I write this the cable guy is figuring out how best to hook us up.

(Yes, we're one of the 10% or so of American households who don't have -- or have not had -- cable or satellite TV hookup. When my husband mentioned that to a co-worker a couple of years ago in response to the co-worker's reference to some show on a network we can't access through the airwaves and rabbit ears, she looked at him in astonishment and said, "What do you do?" Um, read? Talk to each other? Or, actually, in my case, spend a lot more time on the computer than is probably healthy. :-)

Anyway, I just discovered the previously-unpublished comments this morning and have published them. I also disabled the comment-moderation feature so (I hope) comments will now be published automatically without my having to approve them. Troll and spam posts, of course, will be deleted.

What if no one were ignorant, an idiot, or incapable of critical thinking?

Then we wouldn't have articles like this, in which all the country's ills -- and much of the world's, including, I kid you not, global warming -- is blamed on fat people. And in which the author fantasizes -- err, speculates -- on how better off everyone and everything, from the economy to Earth itself, would be if there were no fat people.

Imagine substituting any other population or group of people in the title phrase of Shirley Skeel's MSN Finance article:

"What if there were no more black people?"
"What if there were no more Jews?" 

Would MSN Finance publish an article to that effect? Or are they just interested in promoting some kind of bariatric "final solution"?

The article is so full of mistakes, misconceptions and logical errors that it would take me hours to go through them, and I really don't care to spend the time on such gallingly poor journalism. Besides, others have already addressed some of the more salient (and egregious) claims: see Cthulhu's Cafeteria and LiveJournal, with possibly the best response being men_in_full's "Love letter to a fat man".

Contemporary societal, medical and media hysteria about fat people is fueling increases in discrimination toward fat people as well as eating disorders. As Kathleen Phalen Tomaselli writes in an article at Amednews.com:

In the war on obesity, thinness has become the hallmark of success. "There's this continued glorifying of unhealthy and unnatural images," says Harry A. Brandt, MD, a psychiatrist and medical director of the Center for Eating Disorders at the Sheppard Pratt Health System in Baltimore.

As a result,

The face of anorexia is changing, says Brenda Woods, MD, a family physician and director of primary care medicine at Remuda Ranch in Wickenburg, AZ, an inpatient and residential treatment facility for women and girls, with facilities in Virginia and Arizona...."We've had a 400% increase in calls by women older than 40 and a 700% increase in the child population, age 7 and 8."

Keep in mind that anorexia nervosa has the highest fatality rate of any psychiatric illness.

Fortunately some physicians are recognizing "the importance of people being comfortable in their own bodies and realizing what is overweight for one person might not be for another." For instance, Brandt says,

"Maybe you are at your body's normal weight. Maybe you have the genetics to be large. Discrimination against the obese drives people to change, and we encourage people to engage in unhealthy behaviors. [Like chronic dieting, yo-yo weight loss and regain (aka weight cycling), eating disorders, and mutilation in the form of bariatric surgery.] Genetics loads the gun, and society pulls the trigger. [Emphases and bracketed comments mine.]

Shirley Skeel and MSN Finance to fat people: Bang!

April 30, 2008

Gas prices in Nashville

Gasprices1Spotted at the Hillsboro Village Shell station around twilight tonight.

April 11, 2008

A stroke of insight

Several years ago neuroanatomist Jill Bolte Taylor had the rare opportunity as a brain scientist to observe herself having a stroke. A hemorrhage in her left hemisphere rendered her the left side of her brain temporarily nonfunctional while the right hemisphere took over.

In this 20-minute video clip she describes her experience and shares her insight from it. Worth watching.

April 03, 2008

Weighty Issues on WNYC

WNYC On Demand has The Brian Lehrer Show interview with Anna Kirkland and Lara Frater available for listening online or downloading.

Kirkland is assistant professor of women's studies and political science at the University of Michigan and the author of Fat Rights: Dilemmas of Difference & Personhood. Frater is a fat activisit blogger and author of Fat Chicks Rule! How to Survive in a Thin-Centric World.

Click here and scroll down to "Weighty Issues" to listen to their interview.

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